Well, think your can guess why i would be stating this in my blog (if it ever meant that anyone has visited my blog anyway. LOL). For obvious reason, my status has changed already :) well bye bye to single life already haha. Time to move on to unknown plans not set upon, some has said its full of life, vigour, filled with sadness and unlimited amounts of happiness (well that;s for a succesful r/s anyway). Although i still think i am not that yet mature enough to handle affairs of the heart (i'm not a born natural speaker/vocalist/pacifist/lover/you name it). But of course, i'm learning everyday to become a better one :)

Ah, moving on to the topic. That's a very good question for nowadays people to think about. As the number of divorce rates increase with each year and survey shows that the thrend would continue, i think its really time for people to look into the reasons of having a girlfriend and also a wife. Of course, we cannot compare them easily because they are two different stages of a r/s. However it would be good to note that while marriage is more concrete and solid, its doesn't mean that it would be stronger than a r/s of bf/gf also.

Reasons for having them in your life in the first place. I wouldn't want to list anyway coz it would defeat the purpose of it but for food for thoughts, well this is what i think 1) to share whatever happiness (and sorrows but mind =.=" who wants it anyway). 2) having a emergency person beside you that would respond when you need it the most? 3) a shelter in case any other thing happened? 4) secrets! to forge a bond? haha

Well, seems superficial to me but i do think what love is would meant a lot more. I haven't yet discover but that's all i can think of in the first place haha. If you want friends, well your buddies would fill the criteria a lot easier, love from family would be a shelter, enough to storm all (at least for most cases? i hope so anyway). and well, sharing is done to anyone and everyone also?. Secrets is a tricky thing also haha. Its involves a lot of trust going on anyway.